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2550-01-18

HOME AGAIN

We've been home since late Tuesday night/early Wednesday morning.  I spent much of yesterday in bed (I didn't get a whole lot of sleep in Bangkok) and today has been spent getting caught up on some computer maintenance issues and other pressing matters.  In a little while, I'll begin choosing and resizing photos from the past week or so to post on the blog.  Hopefully, I'll get that done sometime this afternoon or tonight.

Tim and I had a wonderful time — the Eric Clapton concert ranks among the top ten best shows I've ever seen and I (finally) finished what I needed to do at the U.S. Embassy (a "funny" story about my visit will appear in an upcoming entry).  Oh yes, last night we (including Jum) all went out to dinner and gave Gaow his new English name afterwards — henceforth, he will be known as Alexander or Alex for short.

2549-12-22

ONE SOLITARY WEEK

I've had a fairly solitary week with Tim up in Lamphun Province (south of Chiang Mai).  Aside from brief visits from Nadia (picking up something for work), Doug (dropping off some spaghetti Bolognaise purchased at the Mediterranean restaurant near Chalong pier), and Jum (checking to see if I wanted to go shopping with her) I've been on my own.  It's been rather nice but I miss my wife dearly and I'm going a bit stir crazy.

Tim has been calling me at least twice a day all week (except today — she said she would be turning off her phone once she boarded a bus back south so I assume she's on her way).  She had quite the runaround at the local amphoe (a two-hour drive each way from her parents' home):  Monday, she arrived after 9:00 in the morning and was told to return at seven the following day; on Tuesday, it took most of the morning going from one office to another to get the surname changed on her ID card.  She wasn't able to change the name on the land deed as they want to check out the land first; this was after they requested the presence of both her parents, brothers, and sisters (yes, they all got up in the wee hours of the morning in order to get to the amphoe by seven).  But I've found this is typical of any Thai bureaucracy — they make you jump through all sorts of hoops and in the end you only get half of what you wanted in the first place...

When she called this morning, Tim said she'd paid a visit to her ex-husband and was bringing me a "special gift".  Don't know what this could be (not their divorce papers as they'd had a common-law marriage; perhaps a refund of her original dowery?).

I've spent most of the week getting caught up on my reading (finishing one book and starting several others as I couldn't decide on just one) and doing a bit of work on the computer.  I also did a bit of house cleaning on Tuesday — more of a tidying-up, really, as the electricity was out most of the day (not to mention the water).  I need to walk over to 7-Eleven tomorrow as my food supplies are depleted (and the water bill is due — how ironic).

I did finally meet my next door neighbor's wife a couple of days ago.  They're from Bangalore, India.  He's head of IT for one of the local resorts and she just stays at home watching television.  Mostly, our conversation consisted of her asking me what to do when there's no water for days on end (fill buckets full when it works and obtain the jugs of drinking water from the guys on the trucks; I end up dumping some in the toilet bowl so I can flush).  She also asked me why Christians decorated trees to celebrate Christmas.  I had no idea but promised to find out (which reminds me — I need to do a Google search in a minute...).  She seems very nice but I think she's bored as she has no friends; I'll have to send my wife over there when she gets back.

At least it seems like Tim is on her way home.  She last called me around 6:30 yesterday morning complaining how cold it was in Lamphun and that she would probably be leaving there sometime that day.  There's no electricity at her parents' home and she hadn't been able to recharge her cellphone battery so she told me she'd turn it off as soon as she boarded the bus.  If she left Chiang Mai yesterday afternoon, she should be home sometime tonight if the arrival and departure in Bangkok are fairly close together.  I miss her and I can't wait until she gets back to Chalong.

2549-12-18

(SEMI-)LONELY DAYS (AND NIGHTS)

With the New Year rapidly approaching and the time limit coming close to expiring on certain administrative duties, we decided that there was no time like the present for my wife to journey up north to Lamphun.  The two main reasons are that Tim needs to change the name on her ID card to reflect her marital status (why this has to be done in the province of a Thai woman's birth is just one more frustrating thing about bureaucracy in this country) and that she needs to change the name on the deed for 2 rai (approx. 3200 square meters) of land her father gave us.  These tasks need to be done at the provincial amphoe office.  She also misses her family a great deal and wanted to stay with them during her visit; this explains — in part — why I didn't go along as she knew I wouldn't be comfortable there (no electricity or running water) and the closest thing resembling a hotel is almost two hours away.  I also had an easy-to-cancel meeting this week that she didn't want me to miss.

Anyway, Tim left Friday evening journeying with her cousin — Ahn — to Bangkok on the overnight bus (for free, arranged by our friend "who-knows-what-he-really-is-in-the-military?", Opat) and almost immediately leaving for Chiang Mai on another bus (a very tight connection).  The timing and packing for this trip had been accomplished in less than two days (including a whirlwind trip to the supermarket Friday morning to buy groceries so I wouldn't starve while she's away).  We'd talked about her trip a few times but suddenly we realized that her ID and deed changes needed to be done before December 31st; she would need to leave almost immediately if there was any hope of her getting back before Christmas (and I have something very special planned for the anniversary of our introduction on New Year's Eve!).

Although I knew I'd miss my wife immensely (the first time we've been apart for any length of time since late June when our granddaughter was born), I began to look forward to having some time in the house by myself.  I thought I'd have time to get caught up on lesson/course plans, some "fun" reading, listening to music on the living room stereo, and watching VCD's of downloaded American t.v. programs.

Alas, tonight is the first time I've truly had the house to myself since Tim left.  First of all, Thursday night Nadia returned from her trip to visit family in the Isaan region.  It had been planned that she would find an apartment in Patong upon returning — closer to her job and Tim wouldn't have to drive her out and pick her up every evening.  However, we couldn't find anything suitable Friday (it is high season and everything is either full or too expensive) so it was decided she'd continue to stay here until she did.  She returned to work that evening so I was alone for a little bit; Ben and Nid were in town for the evening (they moved to Chumphon a little over a week ago) and invited me out for Mexican food at Los Amigos.

I then suffered from a case of Montezuma's revenge (which I'm going to rename "Thaksin's revenge" here, in "honor" of our recently overthrown prime minister) all day yesterday.  This was made even more "enjoyable" due to the fact that our water wasn't working (it finally came back on late this evening after being off since sometime Friday).  Although Nadia spent a few hours out looking for a new room, she kept checking on me to see if I was doing okay.  When Tim called me tonight, she told me Nadia was worried that I wouldn't eat right if nobody was around to take care of me.  That's just how Thai women are — they really take care of the men in their lives no matter if they are their husbands, fathers, brothers, sons, uncles, or just friends.

Anyway, Nadia did find a room for rent yesterday — in Phuket Town which is even farther away from her job than Chalong is.  But she is renting it with a girlfriend from her job so she'll have transportation to and from work each night.  The rent is 1,700 baht (approx. USD $48) but I don't know if this is the total or just Nadia's share; it does have a bathroom with shower in the room but no air-conditioning.  I can only imagine what it looks like!  She delayed moving last night because she said she would be too tired after work but finally left around 3:30 this afternoon (only after making me lunch, having me conduct an English lesson, and generally fretting over me for much of the day).  She didn't take all of her stuff (she must have more shoes than Imelda Marcos) and said she'd call later in the week to check if I want her to bring me any food.  She also warned/told me that she'd come over when she had any holidays from work (few-and-far between with the current high season and given the fact she just returned from ten days off).

Needless to say, I'm enjoying my newfound "freedom" tonight by getting caught up on computer work without the constant interruptions ("how do you spell 'restaurant', Khun Mark ka?", "do you want some drink, Khun Mark ka?", etc.).  But truth be known, it certainly is nice to always have someone looking after you be it your wife or daugther-in-name (if not in-blood).

I'm sure that Tim's best friends, Lek and Jum, will be dropping by tomorrow to check in on me.  Their idea of making sure that I'm okay is to bring me (very greasy and boney) fried chicken — why is it that Thai people think that farangs love chicken and only chicken?  (I'm personally sick of chicken and cringe whenever I'm given any; at least Nadia and Tim realize this so their unsolicited offereings have lately been beef or pork satay).

Well, as I've said, it's really nice to have people look after you but at the same time I'm just not used to it because of the years I spent as a loner.  Hell, I'd like to be able to lay on my sofa in my underwear without worrying about Tim's girlfriends dropping by unannounced...

I miss my wife and look forward to her quick return (then, she can entertain her friends and I can retreat to my room/office once again...).

2549-11-19

PHOTOS: PATONG CARNIVAL & LOY KRATONG

The night after we returned from Singapore, we drove into Patong to check out the last night of the High Season Carnival.  Highlights included plenty of great music, food vendors, and a bikini fashion show.  Here are a few photos from the night:


My lovely wife, Sangwan (Tim).

Nadia and Tim.

Tim with Thai dancers.


I always enjoy the traditional Thai dancing at the various carnivals.

Lighting a Lanna-style paper balloon on Patong Beach.



The next two nights, we attended Loy Kratong carnivals in Karon and on Bangla Road in Patong where I took the following pictures:

A rare photo of my wife wearing makeup...

Children's talent show at Karon.

Kratongs floating on the lake at Karon Park.

Nadia, Opat, and I danced until the wee hours on the stage at Karon.

Too much happy in the middle of the night.


Tim and Opat sold beer and softdrinks on Patong Beach for Loy Kratong.

Stage set up on the eastern end of Bangla Road for Loy Kratong.  Sunday night saw traditional beauty and Kratong-making competitions; Monday night this was the scene of the Miss Beer Bar contest making for quite a contrast!



Loy Kratong features beauty contests for women of all ages in traditional Thai garb.


The night before, Nadia and I had sent a balloon aloft just the two of us as Tim was busy with her beer stall.  I decided we should have her participate on the actual Loy Kratong night (Sunday) as it's better luck.  Jum, who had returned after a lengthy stay in Udon, also joined in.


After Nadia got off of work, we (including Jum and Lek) all met up at Deng's Bar in Bangla.

2549-11-06

BACK HOME, BUT NOT MUCH REST

It's been a crazy week and I've barely had time to sit down and catch my breath, let alone try and bring this blog up-to-date.  Now that I do have a bit of time, I'm not really in the mood to write a lot.  I'll write more about our trip when I post some select photos later in the week; but I'll try to write a bit more extensively tonight about this weekend in Phuket (before I forget).

Tim and I spent last Monday through Thursday in Singapore.  My impression of the city is as one large park with trees and flowers everywhere.  It's also the cleanest place I've ever visited.  Some people describe it as "sterile" but I found it quite refreshing to be in a "civilized" place once again after the garbage one encounters in Thailand.  Our hotel was located in a very nice area of Queen Street, a short walk south of Bugis Market and a bit north of Fort Canning Park.  I'll go into more detail when I post some photos but we did manage to do A LOT of touristy things during our brief stay.

Oh, yes.  I received my Non-Immigrant (O) Visa without any real problems at all.  It was a two-day process — submit the application (with fee) before noon on the first day and retrieve the passport (with nice full-page visa) after two the next.  I now can legally stay and work in Thailand at least until the expiration date of October 30, 2007 (longer with the month-long extensions granted after every three months).

I must mention that Tim hated Singapore.  I think that had as much to do with the lack of Thai restaurants in the areas we visited as to the general expensiveness of the city as a whole.  It's a shame, really, as I'm ready to return already (and who can resist Tiger Airways' 30-baht one-way fares?) and she has no desire ever to go back...

We did sleep in a bit Friday morning after our late-night return to Phuket (in the rain, of course) but we headed out to Patong in the late afternoon for the Carnival marking the beginning of the tourist High Season.  A large section of the beach road was blocked-off with stages erected at both ends sandwiching numerous food/souvenir/beer booths.  Our live-in "daughter" Nadia met us soon after our arrival (she moved in with us a few weeks ago but stayed with a friend during our trip) and it was wonderful to see her (I'd missed her massages) before heading off to work at one of the temporary restaurants set up in front of the beach.  One of the highlights of the night was a "Super Model Bikini Fashion Show" (unfortunately, my camera failed me).

Saturday and Sunday nights we attended Loy Krathong (ลอยกระทง) festivals in Karon and Patong.  This is held around the full moon of the twelfth lunar month and the main goal is to launch a small boat made of banana leaves with flowers, candles, and incense sticks out onto the water.  The candle is lit, a wish made, and the boat is pushed away from the shore.  The tradition is that you keep watching the boat until it drifts out-of-sight with the belief being that the longer the candle remains lit the better your luck will be in the coming year.  Many Thai ladies are dressed in traditional costumes, competing for the title of Nang Nopamar (นางนพมาศ), bringing out their true beauty more than anything else.  Also, illuminated Lanna-style hot air balloons are launched into the evening sky giving the entire area a truly magical feel.

I felt Saturday was the most fun as it wasn't the actual Loy Krathong night and thus somewhat less crowded.  Tim and I spent a little while shopping in the markets surrounding Karon's festival site and then returned after picking up Nadia from work.  We were later joined by Opat and spent a very late night dancing on the big stage.  In Thai carnival tradition, you had to buy a ticket for 10 baht a dance and then choose one of the ladies onstage (or take your own) as a partner.  Tim purchased a big wad of tickets and gave them to Nadia and I, opting to sit out all but one of the dances.  I'm usually not much of a dancer so I was very reluctant to be one of the only farangs up on the stage (there were perhaps only one or two others at the entire festival as it really is a Thai event rather than a tourist one).  Anyway, spurred on by several bottles of a fairly decent Japanese beer (Asahi, on sale with a buy-two-get-one-free promotion) and Nadia's insistence that I dance with her I ended up dancing for a couple of hours.  In fact, since I was dancing with Nadia they never collected any of her tickets so we ended up giving some away at the end.  They only played Thai songs but it seemed like I knew every one of them because of Tim's karaoke VCD's!

One of the best things about Thai festivals and carnivals is that there is no curfew and when we left around 4a.m. it was still going strong!

Sunday, Tim was to sell beer and soft drinks for the Patong Loy Kratong Festival.  She and Nadia drove in early and Doug was supposed to pick me up later.  However, he never made it and Opat ended up driving all the way from Patong.  After checking on the status of Tim's sales, I took a walk down to Bangla Road which was filled with carnival booths as well as a large stage on the eastern end.  Kratong boats and flower arrangements were for sale everywhere.  I even ran into teacher Bob, American Bob, and Ging while walking around (we'd had a few drinks with teacher Bob on Friday as well when we spotted him at the High Season Carnival).  Back to Tim's spot on the beach and I ran into Ben and Nid.  Shortly after that, it began to rain so Ben and I retreated to a nearby Italian restaurant where we enjoyed an excellent pizza (the best I've had in Thailand thus far).  The light shower soon became a torrent and Tim refused to budge from her spot despite a severe lack of customers.  Nadia returned after her work (she works 5-12 at Coconut Resort); it stopped raining as soon as she hopped off of Lek's motorbike.  She walked with me down to the beach where we launched a hot air balloon (a bit of trial-and-error as the balloon didn't want to go skyward at first).

Around 1a.m., we packed up the coolers and decided to find a better spot closer to the intersection with Bangla to catch the after-bars crowd.  However, the police were directing everyone away when we got there so we decided to head for home.  We'd barely started driving when all the lights went out; Patong went completely dark due to some major power failure so it was another omen that we should leave.  As we climbed the hill towards Karon, I happened to look back and was struck by the image of hundreds of paper hot air balloons ascending into the sky.

As we came into Karon, we noticed the carnival there was still in full swing so we decided to stop off for a bit.  Tim set up shop at the entrance to the beach-front park and suggested Nadia and I go and float our Loy Krathong boats (we'd forgotten earlier).  You normally set your boat adrift with your significant other but as Nadia has truly become part of the family, they didn't see any problem with it (I didn't know this detail until I read up on the festival today).  Because of the rain earlier, the candles and incense on our boats refused to light so I don't know how lucky we'll be.  After our boats drifted off into the darkness we checked out the end of a concert in the new amphitheatre before returning to Tim.  She hadn't sold any beer or soft drinks at all in the previous hour but wasn't willing to give up just yet.  We spent some time walking around (the Thai dancing wasn't that tempting tonight).  We finally left around 3:30, all of us in a rather subdued mood.

Today was another sleep-in day.  Nadia gave Tim a massage while I began unpacking from our Singapore trip (finally!).  The three of us went over to Central Festival for lunch and some serious shopping since we didn't buy very many souvenirs in Singapore.  We then met Jum who has just returned from a long stay in Udon; she's going to be staying with us as well until Jacki returns from Belgium in a couple of weeks.

Well, that brings this blog more-or-less caught up.  I'll write more extensively about our sightseeing in Singapore when I post a few photos later in the week.  I still have A LOT of other things to clear off of my desk but I promise I won't wait too long!